By Jacob Stockinger
There we were, in the lobby of the concert hall, waiting to go hear Rachmaninoff’s “Rhapsody on a Theme of Paganini.”
If you listen carefully, I joked, you’ll probably hear me sobbing at the end of the 18th Variation, a wonderfully lyrical several minutes that mark the end of the slow movement and has such a beautiful theme that French pianist Philippe Bianconi played so perfectly.
“You mean even you, a music critic, cries?” asked one of the friends we were with.
Yes, I said, yes I do cry. Often.
In fact, the ability to make me cry is one of the things that draws me to classical music – though not by any means the only thing — and to certain pieces again and again. It feels good to cry at beauty – cathartic and at once communal and intimate.
The incident got me to thinking and I started making a list of the classical music that almost always makes me cry – though that is hardly the only criterion for choosing favorite pieces.
Why do I cry? Is it genetic or nervous system hard wiring? Is it social conditioning? It is a formative childhood experience? I honestly don’t know, though I suspect all play a role.
And it’s not just classical music. Certain pop and rock songs do it too. And hearing people sing “We Shall Overcome” always does it.
But here is a listing of some of the classical pieces that make this critic cry—almost every time:
The Andante movement from J.S Bach’s Violin Sonata No. 5 in F Minor and cantata aria “Ich habe genug”; Samuel Barber’s “Adagio” for Strings; Beethoven’s “Emperor” Concerto (the slow movement); Brahms’ “Selig sind die Toten” from his “German” Requiem and the slow movement from his Violin Sonata No. 3; the slow movement from Chopin’s Sonata No. 3; Sir Edward Elgar’s “Nimrod” Variation from the “Enigma” Variations; Mozart’s Requiem and the first two movements of his last Piano Concerto, No. 27; Puccini’s “Vissi d’arte” from Tosca” and “Nessun dorma” from “Turandot” and the opening duet from “La Boheme”; the 18th Variation from Rachmaninoff’s “Rhapsody on a Theme of Paganini” and the finale of his Piano Concerto No. 3; the second movement of Schumann’s “Kreisleriana”; and the “Love Death” from Wagner’s “Tristan and Isolde.”
There are lots more, I’m sure. Maybe as they come to me, I will write about them.
In the mean time, here are some audio samples of the beautiful music that makes me cry:
First, here is Arthur Rubinstein playing that same 18th Variation with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra under Fritz Reiner. It is, as one commenter says on YouTube, both passionate and delicate. Try it and see.
Then here is a purely instrumental piece: the “Nimrod” Variation from Sir Edward Elgar’s “Enigma” Variations, played by the Chicago Symphony Orchestra under its last music director Daniel Barenboim in a Carnegie Hall:
It was also used by Ken Burns in his documentary about World War II. But I loved it before then. I heard the CSO play it as a tribute to their longtime cellist who had recently died. That’s was a perfect piece for the occasion and made me ask the Lawrence University Orchestra to perform it for my 40th reunion in honor of those classmates who are no longer with us. They did and it was perfect. It worked again.
And finally, here is superstar tenor Luciano Pavarotti singing Puccini’s “Nessun dorma” from “Turandot” with the Met’s James Levine conducting in Paris. It was Pavarotti’s signature and no one before or since has done it like him. It works every time, from the first time I heard it – played as background against bombers dropping bombs in the film “The Killing Fields” — to the last Olympics Pavarotti sang in before he died.
Does classical music ever make you cry?
What pieces of classical music make you cry?
Let me know. I am anxious to expand my experience.
And The Ear wants to hear – as well as cry.
The two pieces that affect me the most are the Firebird Suite (especially the Finale movement) by Stravinski, and the entire Pictures at an Exibition when scored for full orchestra. By the time that the Great Gates of Kiev comes along, that piece has made me experience the entire spectrum of emotion. When the final chimes sequence enters, I am literally weeping as if I have experienced a new beginning…that’s what all good music should be able to do…
Comment by Carmine Strollo — April 23, 2012 @ 12:48 pm
Hi Carmine,
Thanks for reading and replying.
Those oar both very try good choices.
They always move me too.
Both have certain cathartic qualities built into them.
I’m sure other readers would agree.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — April 23, 2012 @ 5:11 pm
I know I am a bit late on the uptake, but I am so glad to have found this entry. I’m a classically trained violist and am forever crying about music. Brahms gets me right in the gut, especially his string chamber music (string sextet no. 1 in particular makes me ache for the overwhelming beauty of it all), as does Beethoven. How is a human mind capable of notating the entire scope of human emotion onto paper? How can one orchestrate joy, devastation, hope? I’m currently listening to the “German” Requiem and having quite a good cry.
Comment by maya — March 28, 2012 @ 10:08 pm
Hi Maya,
I am so pleased you found the post, read it and replied.
Yes, I agree: Brahms will make people cry very often.
And especially in the “German” Requiem, which always gets me from the opening measures to the closing ones.
It really about as close to perfect as a long piece can get.
And it touches something deep every time I hear it.
Keep listening and keep crying.
It is cathartic, no?
Besides, composers wrote to move people, not to be studied.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — March 29, 2012 @ 1:39 pm
I find some musical selections make me gassier than others, The William Tell Overture among them!
Comment by Barb — March 24, 2012 @ 2:25 am
A lot of classical music brings me to tears, but Puccini’s music hits me very hard. No other composer’s music affects me so much. I weep throughout Madama Butterfly.
Comment by Peter Prainito — February 28, 2012 @ 5:13 pm
Hi Peter,
Thank you for reading and replying with such candor and openness.
I too respond emotionally to Puccini.
For me, it is the first act of “La Boheme” and certain moments in “Tosca” more than “Madama Butterfly.”
But there are many moving moments in Puccini.
He had the gift, that is for sure.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — February 29, 2012 @ 9:31 am
After listening to a few different versions of “Death and Transfiguration” last night and crying frequently, I too wondered as another poster did, how this happens from a scientific standpoint. One cries at certain moments as if on cue.
While I’ve seen many Wagner operas I will not see “Parsifal” ……and as was stated, this does seem to happen the older I get. Even with a movie –I cried throughout “The Joy Luck Club.” Now while the movie stories were sad enough, I realized it was the music causing the true emotion I experienced.
I did read long ago when I studied Wagner that there was a deliberate process of withholding resolution to achieve a certain relief if you will, when it finally does occur.
I’m glad to see I’m not the only one. Before computers and the community it creates, I would sit in the theaters or opera houses looking around at my dry-eyed fellow patrons wondering why I was the only one with tears in my eyes …
Comment by Barb Seller — December 18, 2011 @ 10:01 am
Can anyone recommend a method to obviate the sudden overwhelming response to cry when listening to sad music? A recent example was that in a restaurant where (so called relaxing music) was playing in the background. A few bars of Rachmaninov and I broke down. I know we are supposed to be in a tolerant society, but it is embarasing to be so overcome in public. It seems to be getting worse the older I get.
Thank you in anticipation of a positive suggestion.
Keith
Comment by keith — November 27, 2011 @ 2:12 pm
Hi Keith,
Thank you for reading and responding, especially so frankly and personally.
I suppose someone might recommend taking an antidepressant.
But I think what you experience is just fine and shows a sensitivity. Certain pieces do that to me too.
Others should be embarrassed if they don’t respond, not you.
But if you really must overcome it, I suggest two things.
One is listening to it over and over again until you become desensitized, much like they do with phobias.
The other is to put words to the music, words that have a sense quite opposite from the sensibility or sense of the music.
That might break the connection.
But then you might never get it back again when you want or need it.
Let me know what you think.
Good luck.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — November 27, 2011 @ 5:12 pm
Hi Jake,
Thank you for your kind thoughts.
My initial response is that, having read your blog, I’m more than relieved to find there are other people so sensitive to music and I really like your comment that others should be embarrassed if they don’t respond similarly.
I agree, I don’t think I should try to desensitize myself at this stage but I shall try your “positive lyric” recommendation.
Regards
Keith
Comment by keith — November 28, 2011 @ 4:43 am
Hi Keith,
Glad I could be of some help.
Your instincts are correct, I think.
Who would want to become insensitive to beauty?
Life is hard enough without it.
Good luck.
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — November 28, 2011 @ 8:22 am
Pretty much all the lyrical music of Richard Strauss turns me into a tearful heap. It’s quite embarrassing really!
Particular powerful examples are the “Four Last Songs,” the slow movement of the oboe concerto, “Presentation of the Rose” and trio and conclusion of “Rosenkavalier,” the summit and homecoming of the “Alpine” Symphony, and the end of “Death and Transfiguration.”
The music just ratchets up the emotional tension until it’s unbearable. I do sometimes wonder if the music is heartfelt or if Strauss was just cleverly manipulating the audience’s emotions … I think it’s the combination of skillful use of dissonance, shifting harmonies and powerful bass line counterpoint combined with glorious orchestration.
Comment by Mike — November 2, 2011 @ 2:10 pm
Hi Mike,
Thanks of reading and replying — with such heart and sincerity too.
I think your taste is terrific and your analysis and speculations are exactly on the mark.
Those same qualities mark a lot of very late Romantic music, including Wagner, Mahler and Bruckner.
Happy listening and happy weeping — it’s good to be into the music that deeply and let it be into you that deeply, no?
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — November 2, 2011 @ 4:08 pm
The auferstehn section of Mahler 2. Once the choir comes in I melt in awe of the sound. It is pure joy and “resurrection” and if you look up the version Leonard Bernstein conducts, it is the most heartfelt piece.
Comment by Leo — September 10, 2011 @ 11:37 pm
Hi Leo,
Thanks for reading and replying.
I couldn’t agree with you more about the Mahler Second. One waits through the whole symphony, which will be broadcast tonight (Sunday, Sept. 11, 2011) on PBS’s “Concert for New York” on “Great Performances,” for that choral ending of such hope.
By the way, tonight’s performance It will be done by Bernstein’s home orchestra, the New York Philharmonic, with which he recorded his first pioneering Mahler cycle, under its new conductor Alan Gilbert.
It should be special indeed.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — September 11, 2011 @ 9:08 am
What beautiful music and what a lovely idea for this site.
Now, try this one. I’m afraid I can only give the name and composer but I can assure you all that it is worth the search. Get the tissues handy!
Composer: Eric Whitacre
Title: The Seal Lullaby
Performers: Eric Whitacre Singers
Comment by Angie Watson — August 27, 2011 @ 10:40 am
Hi Angie,
Thank you so much for your kind words about the site,
and for reading and replying.
I will check out your suggestion by Eric Whitacre and then get back to you and others.
I’m sure I will like it — and maybe even cry.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 27, 2011 @ 11:34 am
why hasn’t anyone mentioned Tchaikovsky? perhaps his grand pas de deux from the nutcracker suite, or the last movement of his sixth symphony, the Adagio Lamentoso?
Comment by bob — July 17, 2011 @ 3:12 am
Just found your blog. I guess I’ll add it to my favorites. I cry like crazy with Dvorak’s 8th symphony, especially the second movement. And yes, I said the the 8th, not the 9th, but I have cried with the 9th for various reasons. I cry with the first and third movement of his cello concerto. Yes, I am a Dvorak’s die hard fan. And with his “Song to the Moon,” from “Rusalka.”
I do cry with the Elgar’s “Nimrod” variation and I cried the first time I heard “Nessum Norma.” I cried the first time I heard Beethoven’s “Pastoral,” at the end, with the happiness after the storm. I have choked with the Swan by Saint-Saens, and the adagios of both 4th and 5th by Mahler. Bruch’s violin concerto and romanza. “Holgberg” Suite by Grieg… Beethoven’s Spring Sonata doesn’t make me cry but pierces my heart.
Comment by Lucia — July 12, 2011 @ 2:07 pm
Hi Lucia,
Thank you for reading and replying.
I am honored you will add it my blog to your favorites.
You can also subscribe to it.
You name a lot of good choices that also move me deeply.
Clearly, you have broad taste and deep appreciation.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — July 12, 2011 @ 9:21 pm
Liszt’s Consolation gets me every time
Comment by JSmrd — June 21, 2011 @ 6:18 pm
That piece does it for a lot of people.
You’re not alone.
I hope it brings you the consolation it promises as well as tears.
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — June 21, 2011 @ 9:51 pm
this one does it for me…as well as many you have mentioned here
if that doesnt work, do youtube and out in Cinema Paradiso tema d’amore per Nata…magic
i always listen to music that makes me cry when my partner goes away for a few days…i think it just reminds me of a deepness and a passion that i miss
Comment by Leslie — May 6, 2011 @ 8:48 am
That one is amazing, Leslie. I always say I loved the movie because of the music.
Comment by Lucia — July 12, 2011 @ 2:13 pm
As a musical omnivore I’ve often had classical pieces in my mixes since I was 12 and love to catch music of any kind that is new and interesting to me.
I was stopped in my tracks tonight by the prelude from Mascagni’s Cavalleria Rusticana;
Luckily I was in a position to identify it and then confirm or it would have haunted me for the rest of my life. For some reason it reduces me to tears every time I hear it.
The last 1m30s from a really spartan recording of Danse Macabre will have the same effect as will some Appalachian music. Go figure!
Thanks for inviting the comments, I’ve enjoyed reading them.
Comment by Rob — April 1, 2011 @ 8:33 pm
Hi Rob,
This is a fine choice,. Thank you for the link.
I also like the orchestral Interlude — very moving.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — April 2, 2011 @ 9:45 am
I was pleased to discover this site,having just Googled the question; “Why does Elgar’s music make me cry?”
The piece in question is the slow movement of his 1st symphony.I didn’t actually cry but wanted to,and it seemed to involve a feeling of comfort and reassurance in the midst of much pain.Like a long-term utterly reliable friend providing a listening ear and complete understanding.
I have experienced the same feelings with the slow movement of Samuel Barber’s violin concerto, and it was like someone telling me they knew how I was feeling,and understood.
I don’t think rock music has quite such a profound effect although at times it comes close. Marillion’s “Out Of This World”, Dave Gilmour’s “Where We Start” and The Beach Boys’”She Knows Me Too Well” as well as many of their slow songs,come to mind.
I was also moved to tears inside Lincoln Cathedral when listening to the choir and I suspect this deep reaction to music has a spiritual element to it.Maybe it’s a spiritual experience.
All I’m sure of is that music has been extremely important to me all my life and I’m immensely grateful for it and the opportunity to share it with others.
Dave
Comment by Dave — December 9, 2010 @ 3:33 pm
Hi Dave,
Welcome.
Thanks for discovering, then reading and replying.
You name all good choices and write thoughtfully.
I just heard the Barber Violin Concerto live. Wonderfully moving.
Hope you continue to enjoy this site.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — December 9, 2010 @ 7:24 pm
You have mentioned some songs that make me cry too. I guess it’s the beauty of the sound that stimulates a part of our brain or our hearts. I’d like to share this piece.
I know it’s from a video game but look past that. Even the trance version gets me.
Comment by Mark — December 3, 2010 @ 3:27 pm
I stumbled across your site and am gratified to know that I am not the only one moved to tears at beautiful music. Pop music doesn’t seem to do it to me, but nearly any skilled, live performance of classical music (in the colloquial sense- I am actually a fan of Baroque and Classical) can elicit tears, even from the beginning of the piece!
My first realization was when I was in Paris and saw a special concert of Vivaldi (my favorite) at St. Chapelle. The first note from the strings sang out and tears started streaming down my face- I was quite unable to stop! It was as though the beauty of the place and the beauty of the music filled me so much that the only place to go was through my eyes! Sheer delight!!
Try this one for a little mistiness: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXh7JR9oKVE
Thank you for your blog!
Comment by amattke — November 27, 2010 @ 6:23 pm
Hi Amattke,
And thank you for your moving reply and story as well as your kind words.
I hope you continue to enjoy the blog.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — November 27, 2010 @ 10:46 pm
jake, i happily received your note yesterday.
as for me, i have been an english professor for the last 40 years, never having achieved tenure in various iowa colleges, and so segued into adult day care in 2005. Actually, the more i did teach, the more black-and-blue i felt, and at the juncture of that career i voluntarily vacated, i literally could hardly abide the students. perhaps two out of 75 were actually what we used to call, “collegiate material.”
at present, i have had the marvelous opportunity, after being in iowa 42 years and never liking it, to have been transported back to my home in minneapolis where i am actiity director for the first and largest all-somali adult day care. here, i teach three levels of esl, do all the 21 exercise routines, plan special events, write for the warsan times bi-lingual newspaper, and am editing a book for an eritrean man who is president of te newly-formed mpls. taaxicab driers and owners association where i have been invited in as executive board member as an advocate (with my speaking and writing abilities as an assistance to the immigrant men.
we are fighting the city concerning the harassment and even the persecution of particularly our east african drivers, and i have written for the mpls. star and trib, been interviewed twice, and have been on a radio show. also, i recompose and edit our monthly newsletter.
as i love to write, the bounty of doing just that is upon me, and i am so grateful.
i earned my doctorate at age 29, focusing on english literature– my dissertation was a book of my poetry.
on the way to work today, i didi replay the final ovement of the eroica, and i must say that the coda is astounding, the entire symphony ending with that two-note call— one octave apart– a revisitation of that “herald of triumph.” it is nearly impossible to keep driving the car when one wants to shout and stand up in jubilation.
p.s. what do you all think of rossini’s william tell opera? that work is perfection every recitative, aria, and more. i have the 1972 recording, starring tenor nicholai gedda who can hit those high c#’s– and, to hear him, is never to want to listen to any other tenor– his voice is perfection, and that is an injustice in the very word.
i heard that opera is so demanding, so lengthy, that it is only performed in germany and switzerland– i doubt if any tenor alive here, except gedda, can even master the demands of the tenor part.
my best to you!
lyn l.f. lynner
Comment by lyn l.f. lynner — August 11, 2010 @ 10:24 am
sorry about those typos, everyone! i have an old lousy keyboard at work which does not work well! poor excuse for a former english prof!
Comment by lyn l.f. lynner — August 11, 2010 @ 10:26 am
hi lyn,
despite the typos we can make out what you.
but new keyboards are cheap.
you’d do yourself a favor — to say nothing of us –to go out and buy one.
it will good for your readers and also your fingers.
jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 11, 2010 @ 10:40 am
Hi, Jake,
I have been on a Beethoven kick this Summer and wanted to comment about what I deem is the most “triumphant” of all symphonies– his “Eroica,” No. 3.
The first movement is playful, nearly childlike in its jublilant, repetitive themes going hither and thither,–(nearly like a private joke)– it heralds an apocalyptical awakening to be found in the trio section of the second movement.
In this movement the “Funeral March,” this particular trio section has got to be the most cathartic, exultant conversion from grief to triumph ever written by any composer with the timpani pounding, the brass resounding, and the denouement of strings– as if there is a supreme sacrifice of the “Self” at the altar of eternal bliss.
Too, I wanted to make mention of Richard Strauss’ “The Four Last Songs,” and Liszt’s Etudes # 11-13, emblems of the spirit’s imminent journey to The Great Beyond, as attested in Taoism and major world religious philosophies.
When I receive my David Oistrakh recording this week in the mail of the Brahms Violin Concerto, you will hear my obnoxious romanticism on this blog again!
Always, I have wished to be a musician who could deconstruct the mathematics of any grand piece of music– but unfortunatey perhaps, I interpret through the vehicle of a poet’s sensibilities.
Lyn L. F. Lynner
Comment by lyn l.f. lynner — August 10, 2010 @ 10:35 am
Hi Lyn,
Thanks for reading and commenting.
You’ll have no argument from me when it comes to Beethoven’s “Eroica.”
I love all the movements, but the fugue after the funeral march goes right through me. It sounds like a giant middle slowly lifting off the launch pad and taking flight, at least the way Leonard Bernstein conducts it with the Vienna Philharmonic.
Do you have a favorite interpretation or recording?
Other favorite works after your Beethoven binge this summer?
Let us know.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 10, 2010 @ 4:19 pm
jake– the recording of the eroica, and the other symphonies in this cd package i only state “membran,” so thereby, i do not know the orchestral interpretation nor the conductor.
i so enjoy your website and want to apologise for my stupidity last week, asking, who are you. obviously, you are the blogger!
where are you located? the east coast?
i hand it to you for developing this magnificent site! now, i can pontificate to my heart’s desire!
sincerely yours,
lyn l. f. lynner, ultimate 19th c. romantic.
Comment by lyn l.f. lynner-- the obnoxious one — August 10, 2010 @ 8:49 pm
Hi Lyn,
You are not obnoxious at all. All readers are welcome, and you are especially informative and enjoyable.
Heartfelt thanks for your kinds words about the blog. I am glad it provides you pleasure.
I’m sorry you can’t identify the recording of the Eroica with the orchestra and conductor.
Perhaps other readers will send in their favorites interpretations of that Beethoven symphony.
I am located in Madison, Wisconsin, where I teach journalism at the UW-Madison and was a reporter, arts writer, critic and editor at a daily newspaper for many years.
For more information about me, check out the first blog posting on Aug. 20, 2009. It was my official introduction of myself.
What about you?
Keep reading and writing.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 10, 2010 @ 10:42 pm
Admittedly, I’m quite surprised that I haven’t seen anyone mention Tchaikovsky. The second movement of his Fifth, although so well-known, when played in its entirety, is perhaps one of the pieces that make me cry most…And don’t get me started on the Fourth Movement of Mahler 5. Finally, the “chorale” of the Fourth Movement of Brahms 1 after the dazzling horn solo with the sextuplets accompanying. The syntax is so simple (mere quarter and half notes with little dynamic or tempo change), yet it is one of the most genius passages ever written to this end. Yes, you can probably tell that I love symphonies…probably because I play the violin haha
Comment by James — August 9, 2010 @ 5:36 pm
HI James,
Thank you for reading and writing a comment.
Every piece you mention has a deep emotional impact on me too.
They are all great symphonies.
I too am surprised that others haven’t mentioned them.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 9, 2010 @ 10:39 pm
i rejoice finding this site, as, the older i become, the more supernal my experience is in listening to the music of johannes brahms, my beloved-one in paradise.
i am serious, here. . ..
his chamber music in particular catapults me to realms never visited– and i literally soak handkerchiefs in the privacy of my home: and when attending concerts, I make certain i have one handkerchief with me, and attempt often in futility, to assuage my devastating wonderment of being so transported to what i interpret as “the eternal world of God,” eternal Beauty in his works for piano, cello, and violin.
his piano quartet #2 in a, opus 26 has got to be my very soul, (whatever that is. . . to be discovered later, at some future point)– particularly the middle movement, the one i hope to have at my funeral someday, is, to me, tantamount to my profound, singular very spirit-identity, before i was even born on this sphere of earth.
his one piano quintet is also ethereal, and his violin sonatas, and every piece of his chamber work, including his sextets and other piano quartets and string quartets. the andante of this movement of the sextet in g is also, a bequest to the eternal world, in my humble eyes.
are there any other “brahmsophiles” out there?
i have about every photo of him, especially from his youth, all over my house.
the music of schubert comes close with his great quintet in c major and the g-major quartet and many other chamber pieces, and the late quartets by beethoven and his violin concerto, a seraphic demonstration of the soul’s flight up to the empyrean and back again like a sacred bird.
assuredly, brahms is beyond comprehension and comparison to any other great 19thc composer.. and schubert and bethoven are my second loves.
In my 20s, i used to behold an old couple, the man of whom would sit through entire chamber concerts, head in hands, never lifting his head. i used to question the meaning of this position, as no one else demonstrated such “humility in the face of Beauty.”
now, i realize that i have become the same as he, perhaps more so. . . .
Comment by lyn — August 5, 2010 @ 10:49 am
Hi lyn,
Thank you so much for your comments about the blog. I hope it continues to satisfy you in the future.
And thanks you for your detailed, direct and eloquent reply about Schubert and especially Brahms.
Brahms certainly does have an emotional directness that touches me and many others.
You mention mostly chamber music — and single out some of my favorite compositions of his in that genre — but I feel the same way about much of the late piano music, and the piano concertos and symphonies as well.
As for Schubert, I like him even more than Beethoven. Something in Schubert makes him seem more human and approachable.
Other listeners should envy the depth of meaning you find in music.
The best of listening to you in the future.
And I hope you will keep us current with your choices of new works you hear and new recordings or concerts you like.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 5, 2010 @ 4:04 pm
complimented am i to have received such a beautiful array of statements from whoever you are!
to add: yes, schubert is more “human” in that sunlight- -transmogrifying-to-shadow with those major-minor key alterations one atop the other in his music.
i attempted to relish in the late piano works by brahms, but i found that they were not what the earlier and middle years of his life produced– rather, these were “disturbed” in a way, perhaps in that he was already in a sphere one we have not been privileged to visit.
who are you? let me know. thank you.
Comment by lyn — August 5, 2010 @ 4:37 pm
You really got me with Luciano Pavarotti singing Puccini’s “Nessun dorma”. I am not an opera expert but I know when a certain piece of music moves me. And this one immediately brings me to tears when I hear it. I finally looked up the translation and it is even more touching and beautiful to me. Thanks for posting this. (I found it by looking for opera songs that make you cry – since I didn’t even know the name of this one)
Comment by DeeDee — August 1, 2010 @ 5:55 pm
Hi DeeDee,
Thank you for reading and then commenting with such kind words.
You’re not alone.
“Nessun dorma” really gets to me too.
I have heard many different singers — and I still like Luciano Pavarotti the best. But they all get to me.
It’s a great piece of music that goes right to the heart, whoever sings it — or plays it.
I hope you find more.
Let us know.
Best wishes,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 1, 2010 @ 9:08 pm
I honestly never listen to classical / orchestral music and found this website after hearing:
Stravinsky Conducts Firebird
Which made me cry like a baby. lol.
I’ve always wondered if other people cried to music like this and the first time I ever cried to any music was “Nessun dorma” when I was around 15-16. It got me yet again and I’m 26 years old now and still don’t know how to play any instruments or sing or anything but when I hear either of these 2 songs it hits me every time like a wave of emotion. I’ve never felt anything like it with any other songs.
The songs just sound so sad but yet they’re so awesome. I have to say I honestly hardly ever cry, but it’s just so weird to me that 2 songs can make me do it if I’m just sitting around alone in my room.
Comment by Danny — August 1, 2010 @ 12:38 am
HI Danny,
Thank you for reading and commenting.
And thanks for providing the great link to a wonderful and very moving piece of modern music in a moving performance.
Puccini’s “Nessun dorma” has the same effect of lots of people — one reason the late superstar tenor Luciano Pavarotti made it his signature, I suspect.
I understand your wondering about why music touches you so deeply. I can’t tell you.
But I can say that for me and many others, music gets to us in ways that other art just doesn’t.
Welcome to the club.
I hope you find more such music that speaks to you so directly.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — August 1, 2010 @ 10:44 am
I agree with lots of the comments here, particularly concerning Mahler, and thought I’d share a few of my own choices which might not seem so obviously tear-jearking.
Without fail, I shed a tear at the end of the cadenza-type episode in the finale of Dvorak’s Cello concerto when the violin quotes one of his own songs ‘The Cypresses.’ It was a favourite of his sister-in-law Josefina, with whom, it is supposed, he was in love and who had recently died.
I also feel myself welling up at “The Lark Ascending” by Vaughan Williams– particularly at those isolated double-stopped passages in the violin and, more than anything else, at the incredible subtle beauty and finality of the final chords before the solo violin finishes the piece.
Télaïre’s aria ‘Tristes apprêts’ from Rameau’s Castor and Pollux is to me those most beautiful in all opera and underpinned by possibly the most exquisite writing for the bassoon!
There’s also the Basil G. Nevinson variation from Elgar’s Enigma variations and the lilting viola tune from his cello concerto (and, in fact, the rest of the concerto) which never fail to impress upon me the devastation of WWI in a way that no written account ever can.
I also often find myself moved to tears by the sheer power of some music rather than any inherent sadness. There are moments in The Rite of Spring, for example, when the sound is so overwhelming and, frankly terrifying, that I find myself with tears in my eyes. Another example is the Lacrymosa from Britten’s Sinfonia da Requiem.
A last choice, for the sheer uplifting beauty of it, is the moment in the Prélude to Bach’s 6th cello suite (roughly about 2.50 minutes in) when one has the impression of being lifted up to heaven. It is equisite and worth every tear it gets!
Comment by Conal — July 14, 2010 @ 8:06 pm
Hi Conal,
Thank you for reading then taking the time to write or and reply.
The Dvorak Cello Concerto and the “Lark Ascending” are both excellent choices. I should have thought of them, but are glad you did. I am moved by much of Dvorak.
I look forward to hearing more form you in the future.
Best,
Jake
jake
Comment by welltemperedear — July 14, 2010 @ 9:46 pm
I can’t explain it, but Mahler hits my emotional epicenter like no other composer can. The Second Symphony (Resurrection) is such a journey from profound grief to eventual fanfare and jubilation. I will never, ever tire of the last 7 or so minutes where the chorus so beautifully recounts the themes of the last movement.
I’ve heard most Mahler 2 recordings out there, but my present favorite is the Boulez reading (DG in 2006) with the Vienna Philharmonic, which, despite some dynamic imperfections, is so light in bombast and so heavy in emotion and harmonic clarity. I shake every time I hear it.
Comment by romanticfan — May 3, 2010 @ 7:51 pm
Dear Romantic Fan,
You’re not alone. That Mahler symphony moves many of us to tears.
Thanks for also directing us to a special recording of it. It is a great one.
And thanks also for reading and writing a comment.
Best,
The Ear
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I just signed up for your blog and am loving it!
These have instantly come to mind.
I, too, tear up at Wagner’s “Liebestod”. “Bring Him Home” from “Les Miserables” as does “O Mio Babbino Caro”, especially by Angela Gheorghiu, start the flow as does the “Adagietto” from the 4th movement of Mahler’s 5th Symphony. However, I am never able to hear the final chorus from Mahler’s 2nd Symphony – “Resurrection” without losing complete control, almost to the point of embarrassment
Comment by Nina Sparks — April 24, 2010 @ 4:04 pm
Hi Nina,
I am so glad that you enjoy the blog.
Thanks for signing up, for reading and for commenting.
Your responses are great. I share your feelings especially about the Puccini aria and the Mahler symphonies, but would also add the slow movement of the Symphony No. 6 (“Tragic”) and the last movement of the Symphony No. 9.
Happy listening— and happy tears of joy.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — April 24, 2010 @ 5:28 pm
There is something gratifying in the exquisite despair that beautiful classical music can bring.
Samuel Barber’s “Adagio for Strings” is the supreme example, a composition that encapsulates sorrow in a way that in and of itself brings a poetic beauty in the only way that many of us are able to express.
I personally remember you openly weeping at Nicole Cabell’s version of “O mio babbino caro” from Puccini’s “Gianni Sicchi,” one of opera’s most beautiful and touching arias.
Music that can touch the heart so strongly is God’s – or at least the composer’s – gift to us.
Our ability to respond so completely and appropriately is our gift in return.
Comment by Mike and Jean — April 25, 2010 @ 12:34 am
Hi Mike and Jean,
How right you are and how well you express your thoughts.
And what a good memory you have.
Yes, I cried openly at the Puccini aria, and it wasn’t just because of low blood sugar.
I also cried openly when the Madison Symphony Orchestra played Barber’s “Adagio for Strings” right after the attacks of 9/11 as an homage to the victims. They played it right after The Star-Spangled Banner, and it was a perfect touch for the occasion.
Perhaps the most quiet and eloquent testimony to the power of music to move us can be see in the YouTube video of pianist Vladimir Horowitz playing Schumann;s “Traumerei” (Dreams) as an encore to his Moscow recital.
Go to YouTube, plug in Horowitz and Traumerei and about half-way through you will see an older man with eyes closed and a tear streaming down his cheek.
Is he recalling his own childhood? Playing the piece himself? Living in a police state?
The music itself is sufficient cause, no?
As always, thanks.
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — April 25, 2010 @ 10:30 am
I’ll tack on a few that have moved me to tears, and are not as well known:
Henryk Gorecki — “Symphony of Sorrowful Songs” — there are really moments in all three movements, but particularly the climactic center of the first.
Maurice Durufle — Requiem — particularly, the Kyrie, the Cello/Alto duo in the middle, and the In Paradisum.
Lowell Liebermann – “Nocturne #8″ – particularly the final Epilogue/resolution.
Samuel Barber — “Knoxville, Summer of 1915″ — Agee’s final words, and Barber’s setting, succeed in ripping my heart out.
Comment by Tim Adrianson — April 23, 2010 @ 2:45 pm
Hi Tim,
Thanks for reading and responding.
These are all good choices, and I know most of them and also find them moving even if they don’t make me cry.
I have to check into the Lowell Lieberman Nocturne.
Thanks for the tips.
The Ear
Comment by welltemperedear — April 23, 2010 @ 4:22 pm
I was up north for the Duluth-Superior Symphony Orchestra concert last weekend. It included the “Enigma” Variations and yes, “Nimrod” got the tears rolling down my face.
Comment by steph elkins — April 23, 2010 @ 2:02 pm
I get choked up at a different spot in the Brahms “Requiem,” the fifth movement (Ihr habt nun Traurigkeit) with the lines about ‘comfort you as a mother comforts her children’ and ‘for a little while I had pain and hardship, but I have found rest.’ I’m always reminded of Margaret Hawkins, the founder of the Milwaukee Symphony Chorus, and how she struggled to keep conducting our rehearsals and performances as she was battling breast cancer. We knew she was in great physical pain, but we also knew that continuing to share our growth as singers was the best thing for her…for all of us. We’ve sung this piece several times since she died and will perform it again next weekend, and I still sing movement five with a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes.
Comment by Lori Skelton — April 22, 2010 @ 9:33 am
Hi Lori,
Now that is indeed a story to explain why the movement touches you so deeply. Thank you for passing it along.
There are many moments in the Brahms Requiem that move me. (I also love the “Death, Where Is Thy Sting” movement and “Lord Thou Art Worthy” fugue.) I could hear it every year and not complain.
And to think George Bernard Shaw once complained that no one should have to sit through it twice!
Thanks for reading and writing, and keep singing.
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — April 22, 2010 @ 10:07 am
Well now, I’ve attended many concerts that have made me cry.
Actually. there’s so much music that evokes from me those tears that are an exquisite mix of pleasure and sadness – very often it’s Chopin, even at his most familiar, with his amazing ability to be simultaneously tender, poignant and melancholy, but not maudlin or cloying. (Here’s Rubinstein playing the Nocturne Op. 9 #2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YGRO05WcNDk&a=lX8L61bQkcU&playnext_from=ML ).
And certainly there’s plenty more – Ravel’s “Pavane pour une Infant Defunte” is a favorite. Here’s a version by Sviatoslav Richter http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PuFwt66Vr6U
But I also agree with commentator Janice Golay, above – there are those tears that mingle with smiles of sheer, voluptuous joy (Beethoven Symphony #6, last movement – talk about “Beneficent feelings with thanks to the Godhead” – whoever that is).
Well, we could all go on and on, couldn’t we. Great topic, Ear.
Comment by Marius — April 22, 2010 @ 9:10 am
Hi Marius,
And great comments with great examples and suggestions from you.
I feel much the same way about Chopin and much of Ravel as you do.
And the tears are indeed tears of joy, but sometimes mixed with a poignancy.
Thanks for the link.
I hope others respond similarly.
The Ear
Comment by welltemperedear — April 22, 2010 @ 9:31 am
A good performance of classical music can make me cry, but most often I find my strongest involuntary nervous system reaction to be a smile. All of a sudden I find myself smiling — it is not at all conscious. I just discover or become aware of the smile on my face; of course it is connected to the performer’s interpretation and to the music.
Janice Golay
Comment by Janice Golay — April 22, 2010 @ 7:57 am
Hi Janice,
Thank you so much for reading and writing.
You make a terrific point.
I also don’t always cry or have an extremely emotional response.
More often, I too quietly smile or just close my eyes and feel deeply, deeply satisfied and privileged to experience such beauty.
And sometimes great music simply summons up personal memories of special people or moments.
But whatever form they take, my reactions to classical music are different form my reactions to literature or painting, for example.
Are there specific works of classical music you can count on to elicit a deeply emotional reaction? I would be interested to know.
Best,
Jake
Comment by welltemperedear — April 22, 2010 @ 8:46 am